Visibility Hangovers And What To Do About Them

Visibility Hangovers And What To Do About Them

This happens when you launch a new business, a service, a program, a whatever that needs your constant energy output and being seen and heard. It’s like planning a wedding for however long one does that, having the wedding and then all of a sudden nothing to plan. This might sound like heaven, after a kerfuffle and visibility frenzy but the vacuum of silence you get when you no longer put all your energy into being seen and hear can be deafening.

How A Conversation About Contraception Made Me Write This Blog About  Being Seen And Heard

How A Conversation About Contraception Made Me Write This Blog About Being Seen And Heard

I grew up with the notion that when a person of authority told you to do something, you did it, you didn’t question it. Not because you were a mindless sheep but because questioning the “authority” wasn’t safe. Hungary was a communist country during most of my time there. And you didn’t rise against the “authority” if you knew what was good for you.

The Women You Want In Your Circle Of Power And Why

The Women You Want In Your Circle Of Power And Why

When you have a circle of women who have your back, you feel powerful. You feel heard and you feel seen. It took me years to find these women and we have had our fare share of impostors who wanted a piece of what we had as a circle. At the end of the day, what remained are the ones who, to the untrained eye are regular people, but to me, are incredible and powerful women.

Visibility Habits We All Need To Develop

Visibility Habits We All Need To Develop

When the time comes you find every excuse under the sun why you can’t do that video, publish that blog or write that post. The cleaning the toilet is more attractive than communicating with the people who are supposed to book your services, time to get real about visibility issues. Not having freak out about being seen and heard is not about learning how to be more visible. It’s about learning to deal with the emotions when you want to be everything and anything but seen and heard.

3 Signs You're Ready To Be Seen And Heard

3 Signs You’re Ready To Be Seen And Heard

There is no road sign that will show you that you have finally arrived to a point where you deserve to be seen and heard. Don’t hold your breath for some great epiphany either. If you’ve been trying to decide whether or not you’re experienced enough, thin enough, articulate enough, educated enough, or just enough in general to grab some visibility space for yourself in the big bad online world, you’ve been asking the wrong questions.

Occupy The Space You're In

Occupy The Space You’re In

Sandbox or broom closet? Whether it’s one or the other, you are depriving yourself of unfolding you and owning your power if you are staying in the space too small for you. When the container is too small, the solution is not to loose some of your mass. It’s to get a new, bigger container. Or go BIG and have not container at all. You can kid yourself into accepting the tiny space you’re occupying physically and spiritually, by re-shuffling your life. Or by convincing yourself that you don’t need a bigger space. Or worse, convincing yourself that you don’t deserve a bigger space.

This Is Not A 5 Minute Visibility Tip

This Is Not A 5 Minute Visibility Tip

Knowing what makes me tick and what turns me on about my business was one of the best things to discover. Because you’re not in love with your biz 24/7. I get that. There are parts of it that aren’t all that sexy and alluring. And sometimes those things can overwhelm all that makes you feel warm and fuzzy about it. The last thing you want to do is show up and be visible.